A private dinner series for Black men
The Gentleman’s Table.
A curated room for brotherhood, reflection, and honest conversation about life, work, and legacy — protected by confidentiality and designed to help men leave with more clarity than they arrived with.
Monthly • Limited seats • No photos • No social media
The table is more than a meal.
We eat, laugh, and speak freely knowing that respect and confidentiality are part of the recipe. You can take the insights, but not the identities.
Purpose
- Brotherhood without performance.
- Honest conversation without exposure.
- Reflection that turns into action.
- Plates full, hearts fuller.
House rules
- Consistency matters. We meet monthly. Community is built by showing up.
- No photos. No social. The moment is ours, not content.
- Carry it forward. Replication encouraged — more tables, more connection.
- Joy first. We start with laughter, then share the load.
- Trust holds the room. What’s shared in trust stays in trust.
Moderated by
David McQueen
I host and moderate the room — setting the tone, protecting confidentiality, and keeping the conversation honest, respectful, and grounded. This isn’t a stage. It’s a table: calm, direct, and built for men who want substance and community without spectacle.
What to expect
Format
- Warm arrival + introductions
- Shared meal
- Guided prompts (optional to share)
- Open conversation + closing reflections
Who it’s for
- Black men who want community with standards
- Men carrying responsibility at work and at home
- Men who value discretion and depth
- Men who want to leave lighter — and clearer
What men say after the table
Attendee
“I didn’t realise how much I needed a room where I didn’t have to perform. I left calmer and clearer.”
Attendee
“Proper conversation. Proper respect. No posturing. Just men being honest.”
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